Dr. Emily is helping out a work friend by fostering two kittens that were found in her barn. And with kittens comes a ton of cuteness.
I hope you enjoy all the kitty cuteness =)
An attempt to inspire, make you smile, and laugh!
Dr. Emily is helping out a work friend by fostering two kittens that were found in her barn. And with kittens comes a ton of cuteness.
I hope you enjoy all the kitty cuteness =)
A little back story: One of the things that I am most afraid of is being stuck on the side of the road. This fear goes so deep that I am a very nervous traveler and I grew to dread long trips in our old cars (it’s not so bad since we bought our Subaru). If the “check engine” light, or any of those warning lights, comes on, I have to actively fight against panicking. Because of this fear of mine, I have a lot of sympathy for anyone that is stuck on the side of the road. If I see a person walking on the road I feel compelled to stop and ask if they need help. I try to stop if I see a car broken down on the road to offer my help. I do all this because I know that if I were in that position I would be freaking out a little. I’ve helped push several cars down the street for a stranger, I’ve changed a few tires (and plugged one), and I’ve also picked up some hitchhikers that needed a ride. By “some,” I mean I’ve probably given 20 to 30 people a ride. Some times we were going the same way, some times they only needed to go a couple of miles in some direction. My second to longest drive with a hitchhiker was something like 30 minutes. Now, I do have personal rules with hitchhikers. I never give someone a ride when any family member is with me. If I’m riding with a friend, my friend has to agree before I even ask the person if they would like a ride. And, my last rule is no smoking in the car. I also would never want Emily to pick up a hitchhiker, it’s far too dangerous. =)
With all the people I’ve given a ride to, all of them were thankful, all of them only needed a little help to get a little farther down the road. They have all been courteous, respectful, and generally pleasant. We’ll talk and swap life stories, and, when we get to where they need to go, they’ve said “thank you” and I’ve left feeling like a did a good thing for my fellow man. This is true of all the hitchhikers I have picked up, all but one.
Emily moved to South Carolina before I did. She moved there to start her first veterinarian position after having just completed her internship at UGA. I was still living in Athens, trying to pack up all our things and sell our house (still technically own that house). I was working at the vet school during the day, packing and cleaning at night, and I would take a truck load of boxes or furniture to our rented house in South Carolina every weekend. To get from one house to the other was about a three hour drive, and this was well before the time of GPS on our phones. GPS devices were totally a thing, but we didn’t have one. I had some printed off directions that I would follow. I held on to these printed directions like crazy for the first few trips, but by the third or fourth trip I thought I knew exactly how to get where I was going. I didn’t even bring the directions on the fateful “hitchhiker” trip to Newberry.
I had been driving for about an hour and a half. I was in a fairly large town in South Carolina when I lost my confidence in my mental map. I made a few hesitant turns down streets that looked right, but they weren’t. And I was lost. I pulled my truck into a parking lot and started to look for the printed out directions that I knew weren’t in the truck. I only looked for a minute or two until a nice person came up to me and asked if I needed help. How great! I told him I was lost and where I wanted to go. Luckily for me, he knew how to get there and it was, as he said, “In the same direction that I need to go.”
“Fantastic!” I said. “Hop in, I’ll give you a ride.” So, this nice man threw a heavy looking backpack into the truck bed and climbed aboard. He just needed to go down the road a few minutes, and it would put me on the path to Newberry. He started giving me directions, turn at the light and go down two blocks, that kind of thing and then I asked him where he needed to go. He said Greenville. That didn’t mean anything to me, I didn’t know where Greenville was in relation to where we were. We drove in a generally northern direction, which was odd because Newberry was basically east of Athens and I was pretty sure I wasn’t so lost as to be way south of where I needed to be. We started to leave the town, driving distinctly north now. Me and the hitchhiker were chatting, mostly sports stuff (sports are an easy icebreaker) and he seemed like a nice guy. And then I saw the road sign telling me how far Greenville was. Greenville was 50 miles north.
I told the guy that 50 miles was too far, I had to get to Newberry to see my wife. I told him that I would drop him off in the next town no problem, but I had to leave him there. I couldn’t drive two hours out of my way. He listened to me, he let me explain that I was sorry but I had to get to Newberry, I said Greenville was just too far; and then he pulled a knife out of his pocket. He never held it up to me, but he did hold it up so I could see it. It was a big knife. Bigger than I thought would comfortably fit in a pocket. (It might have looked bigger because of the threat it implied.) Then he said, “No, I think you can go all the way to Greenville.”
After he made it clear that Greenville was going to be our destination, he calmly put the knife on his lap and started trying to have conversations with me again. He talked about t.v. shows he liked, and other trivial topics. I tried to act cool, I tried to be comfortable in the situation, but it was so hard to stay calm and simply drive. We got to the south edge of Greenville and he had me pull into a fast food parking lot where a friend was waiting. I have no idea what I hauled in that backpack he had, but that is the only thing he took when we arrived. And, to his credit, he told me to get on I-385 to get back down to Newberry.
That was the only truly terrifying experience I’ve had while simply trying to help out another person. And I haven’t let it deter me from picking up hitchhikers. I know most people are good people. Even my one “bad” hitchhiker only showed me that he had a knife. It could have been so much worse. He didn’t rob me, he didn’t steal my stuff. He could have, but he only took a ride. I’m not blind to the problems of the world. I know that there are some people out there that would have robbed me or worse, but I truly think those people are few and far between that it is worth the risk for me to lend strangers a helping hand when I can.
While we’re all stuck at home, India decided she wanted to make a pond habitat to see what might grow. So she and Tony went down to our little creek and made one. Here’s a little video of our quarantine science experiment.
This is just one of the things we’ve been doing to help entertain and educate the kids while we’ve been under quarantine. What have you been up to? Tell us in the comments. I hope you enjoy the video, and share it with your friends. And, as always, thanks for watching!
Hi, Dr. Emily and I made a vlog about ticks! What ticks are and how they find you, why they are so dangerous, and what to do if/when you find one. Emily wanted to start creating content that entertains and educates people about all sorts of animal care. I hope you enjoy our first installment
If you have any suggestions for topics you would like to see us cover, please leave it in the comments below. And, as always, thanks for watching =)
Here’s our newest vlog. This time Emily and I discuss some of the widely held animal myths that you have probably heard. Should you let a colicking horse lay down? Will a cat always land on it’s feet? Why do dogs eat and roll in rotten disgusting stuff (that one was fan submitted and inspired this video)? Dr. Emily and I discuss all of these and more.
Please leave other myths you would like us to discuss in the comments below, and, if you liked it, please share this video with your friends and family. We hope you enjoyed the video, and, as always, thanks for watching!
When Tony and I were in college, we were living far from home (a whopping 2.5 hours from family) and we were talking about how holidays are difficult, trying to get time off and split between families and such. Then, we read a story about a family where the dad was being deployed over seas and so they celebrated all the holidays in one day. This sounded like a really good/fun idea. So, we got down to planning and came up with “Holiday Day” – celebrated on the Second Saturday in September. On this day, we decided to use all of the major (Christian bias) holidays and what they were best known for and mesh them all together in one, long, marathon day of eating, drinking, and general merriment.
So, this is how the day should go – feel free to add a signature drink with each:
1. Wake up to Christmas – everyone gets one gift to open, then you have breakfast of pancakes made with stocking-stuffer candy bits. Drink suggestions: coffee. Start with coffee. And water – you will need it.
2. Mid-morning: Easter egg hunt (adults too – we didn’t have kids when we celebrated) – split into two groups and have each hide the eggs for the other and see who can find all the eggs in the fastest time (save those numbers for later). Drink suggestions: mimosa, sangria
3. Lunch: Thanksgiving – Believe me, you aren’t going to want a full meal – there is lots of eating all day. Have turkey sandwiches, some macaroni and cheese, or whatever small version of your typical Thanksgiving meal. Drink suggestions: wine, beer
4. Mid afternoon – Olympics (okay, not a holiday, but we were trying to get some events that did not revolve around eating). You can do individual Olympics, ie. party games, timed events, corn hole, etc (they don’t have to require athleticism), or you can split into teams if you have enough participants and do team sports: kickball, softball, volleyball, also non-ball sports that I’m sure are out there. Take the points from all competitions (including the Easter Egg Hunt) to figure out the winner. Drink suggestions: STOP. Hydrate – water, Gatorade, whatever. A day of high food and alcohol consumption without hydration will lead to a very non-holiday day on the second Sunday in September.
5. Dinner: 4th of July (regionally specific) – grill out with hotdogs, hamburgers, or whatever you like to grill. You may get crazy and get some sparklers or something. Drink suggestions: beer – cheap beer that your drunk uncle would have brought for the 4th of July.
6. Evening: Halloween: dress as a holiday not represented during the day, then go out on the town for recklessness and merriment. Enjoy all the very confused faces wondering why a group of people are walking around downtown in costume at the beginning of September. This worked really well in Athens, GA where you could find an eclectic mix of people, but we didn’t continue once we moved to much more conservative towns and were fearful of getting arrested…. or shot. Drink suggestions: whatever you want at the bars/pubs.
7. Last one: Celebrate the end of “Holiday Day” the only way you can; New Year’s Eve and since the first year we did it, we forgot about it until after midnight, now the official New Year’s day for Holiday Day is 12:20am. At this time, the day is over and you may go home – but get a taxi or have a friend take you home. Drink suggestions: water, iced water, hot non-caffeinated tea (hydrate – it’s been a long day)
So, our first official Holiday day was September (second Saturday) 2010. The tradition started off small, just Tony’s sister, Lauren and her husband, Cason, joined us. Lucky for us (not Lauren), she was pregnant at the time and so we had our designated driver. I promise that’s not why we invited them. We started the day with small gifts to each other, made pancakes stuffed with cut up snickers, reese’s cups, etc. We had the egg hunt, boys vs girls, then we made up games to play outside for the Olympics, little bit of dinner and then we headed out to Downtown Athens, GA in our costumes. I was St. Patrick’s day, Tony was boxing day, Lauren was Arbor day, and Cason was Cinco de Mayo. We got some weird looks, but weirdos were not uncommon in Athens, so we went along our way and laughed the whole time.
The second annual Holiday Day was the next year, 2011. This time, we had gained somewhat of a following and Tony’s whole family came, including the littlest one that was with us on the first one, but hidden. We also had a friend from work (an anesthesia tech from the vet school). So, in just one year, we had more than doubled our attendance! We had the normal morning, everyone got one gift, then had a rather competitive Easter egg hunt (everything’s a lot more competitive with Tony’s mom) of girls vs boys.
The olympics was a lot of fun this time with so many people joining us. Tony’s sister, Lauren, came up with a ton of party games such as the one pictured where you have to move a cookie from your forehead to your mouth using only your face muscles. Then, we played team sports such as volleyball and kickball. Finally, after a day of eat, drink, and play, we went out on the town with those of age (and willing to go out in costume) and had another great Halloween celebration on the town… in September.
We got a lot of attention that year. Maybe because the first year, it was raining, and the second year it was the night after a UGA football game, so there were a lot of people out that night. We got a few cat calls, one person spewing his disdain for The Saints to Tony, who was clearly dressed as All Saints day, but we also got a lot of people interested in the concept and we all grew hoarse explaining the concept to all the people who asked and they all seemed very excited about the idea and promised (in their drunken stupor) to participate the next year.
Unfortunately, that was the last Holiday Day that we have celebrated. We moved to the tiny town of Newberry, SC for my next job in September and were, honestly, afraid to be anything but straight collar for fear of being excommunicated. Then, the babies started rolling in (India born the next September), moved to Michigan, had more babies, etc. We are hoping to get it all started again. I’m not sure where we will celebrate Halloween in this town yet. Perhaps some breweries – they have really good ones!
Today was a great day, we caught a fish that was in our little creek. We played a lot inside and out. And we set up the birthday give Tony’s mom (Yaya) gave to Calvin for his birthday. We took a little video of it for everyone to enjoy. Oh, and it was about 70 degrees out when we started the water slide. Enjoy!!
Calvin fell asleep shortly after we played on this for about an hour =)
Our Michigan house was a pretty old house, it was build in 1910. The barn, however, was an older structure. The barn was built in 1892 by the Johnstons. They were a big name in the small town of Rosebush. I was told that Rosebush was given it’s name because of Mrs. Johnston. Anyway, the barn was a huge Amish barn. Coming from Georgia and South Carolina, we had never seen, let alone owned, a barn like this. The barns that I saw in Georgia were mostly pole barns, little more than a tack room and a stall or two so the horse(s) could escape the elements if it chose. So, yeah, this Amish barn was an amazing sight to behold and a lot of fun to explore. The barn has two levels. The lower level has two outside corral areas, one for cattle and one for horses. Each corral led to large covered areas for the animals to shelter in. These areas could, of course, be closed off in bad weather (a blizzard). Two heavy doors lead from the outside shelters to inside the barn proper. There are four large stone made stalls for (Belgian probably) horses, and beyond that several feeding stalls, a chicken coop, and a rabbit coop. The second level of the barn had a few pens for pigs or goats, and a massive hay loft. The hay loft has to be thirty feet high at least. there are two different chutes to drop hay down to the two different sections (inside stalls and outside shelters) of the lower level. These chutes start about twenty feet from the floor of the loft. That barn had to something incredible to see in its prime. A huge loft packed deep and twenty feet high with hay, farm animals of all sorts making this huge barn look small.
By the time we moved in, that barn had not been at capacity for some time. The people before us only had a horse that lived in the barn. At our height of barn animals we had three horses, four barn cats, and twelve chickens. But, we still used the barn, and these are some of my barn stories. Enjoy.
The first story is just a cute little thing. It was winter (I think all of these stories take place in winter) and there was a good layer of snow on the ground. I got all dressed up to do my nightly chores, and I noticed an unusual print in the snow leading to the barn. We had several barn cats, but it wasn’t one of their’s. I didn’t think much of it, we lived in farm country, there was bound to be wild animals about. I figured our big barn cat would chase the intruder away, or it would run once it heard me. The one set of light switches for the entire barn was almost dead center of the lower section of the barn, so I had to walk half way through the barn to turn on the lights. I turned on the lights, turned around, and there it was! An opossum. The big cat hadn’t tangled with it, my noise hadn’t scared it away. the opossum was perched on the side of a stall so that it was roughly face height, and (after I turned away from the switches) I was only about three feet from it. I saw it immediately and took a step back, it didn’t budge. I slowly edged away from it and toward a big stick I kept in the barn. I was able to grab the stick, keeping my eyes on the opossum, and poke him a couple of times. I didn’t want to kill the animal, it was no real threat to the horses or the barn cats, and the chickens (I thought) were locked up tight and safe. After several good pokes and pushes, at this point, I had knocked it off the stall wall, the opossum realized that the classic “playing dead” wasn’t going to work and it scurried out of the barn and back to the wilderness (or so I thought). That opossum returned the next night and I chased it out again. After a week I gave the little guy a name, Frank, and it would eat some cat food I threw to it while watching me cut wood for the next morning.
Why did I have a big stick in the barn? Why did I think the chickens were locked up tight? These are good questions. And they are both because of a raccoon. As the cool Autumn changes into the frigid winter, I would transition the chickens from the outdoor chicken coop into the one in the barn. By summer the chickens always became free range, and I would lock them up at night. As the weather got colder I would start bringing their food and water to the barn so they would roost in there. One chilly night I went out to take care of the horses, cats, and chickens. I turned on the lights, I fed the horses their hay, and the cats their food. I went to feed the chickens last before cutting and gathering wood. I must have walked in and out of the chicken coop (we converted an unused horse stall into a huge chicken coop) three times, bringing food and water in and out. At first the chickens, per usual, were chowing down on their food. There was the usual clucking and squalling that went along with twelve chickens wrestling over the best position around the feeders, but, as I cut wood, the sound suddenly died away. I went to go check on the chickens, and there, at one of the feeders was an adorable raccoon. He was fat and fuzzy (ready for winter) and he was shoving chicken feed into his mouth as fast as he possibly could with his tiny little hands. The raccoon saw me, gave a cute little hiss, and shoved another handful into his mouth. I tried to chase him out of the stall/coop by stomping and running at him. Round the chicken feeders we went. After a few laps, I decided to work smarter, not harder. I went out to the wood pile and found a nice big stick. The chase was back on and this time I could give him a few good whacks. The raccoon ran out of the coop, and up one of the hay shoot ladders into the loft. That night I made sure to gather all the chickens and lock them securely into the barn coop. The next night, I found where the raccoon had returned and had pried open part of the chicken fencing around the stall. Needless to say, Emily and I worked on raccoon proofing the chicken coop after that.
The barn could be very creepy at night. The cold wind howling outside, banging the large wooden doors against the barn, random unexplained noises in the night (noises that were perfectly normal in the light), unknown scurrying in the barn when the lights are out. The barn could be scary at night, especially if you are prone to let your imagination get away with you. There were several times that I would turn the light out (the switch was in the middle of the barn) and have to walk out intentionally keeping my calm. One night, however, I truly scared Emily. Usually I would go out to do the chores by myself, but, sometimes, Emily would come. I would split, cut, and gather firewood while Emily fed the animals. On most nights, getting wood for the next day was my last job, after I was done I had to turn out the lights and walk through the dark barn carrying or dragging a heavy load of wood. So, my mind was trained. I gathered wood, turned out the lights, and left the barn. However, Emily was still in the loft and had no idea I had left or why the lights went out. Now she was in darkness, in a huge empty room that (I’m sure) many wild animals called home, on the second level of a large dark barn. She had called and called for me, but I wasn’t there. I can’t imagine what went through her head, we both have a pension for imagination, as she groped her way to the tiny door that opened in the back of the barn onto the hay loft. She had to dodge unknown obstacles on the ground as well as two hay shoots that dropped ten feet to the lower level. Anyway, I made it inside completely oblivious to what I had done. I stacked the wood, made some decaf coffee to warm up from the cold, and started to wonder why Emily wasn’t inside. It was then that Emily came back inside and told me exactly what I had just done.
There are a few other stories that I have about that barn, but this will be my last one for now. It’s about a possible drifter. This story took place in spring. It wasn’t the dead cold of winter and the nights weren’t completely dark at chore time, but it was definitely cool outside and the sun was setting. The first chore I would always do was feed the horses. That meant climbing the ladder up a hay chute to the loft. On this particular evening I climbed up to the loft and found the small door leading outside open and hitting into the frame with the wind. I did not hear this before I had climbed into the loft, but maybe I hadn’t noticed. But, I was curious. I looked around the loft and found food wrappers on the ground that I had never seen before and they were by a patch of hay that looked depressed and matted down, as though someone was laying there recently. I looked around the loft but I did not find any other signs of anyone. I did my chores, closed the small loft door, and went to the house. The next night, I heard what sounded like fast footsteps in the loft while I was on the lower level. I climbed the ladder to the loft, blaming my imagination, but I did not venture into the darker recesses of the loft where pigs might have been housed at one time. On the third and final night of this story, I went out to do chores, and climbed into the loft. I did not hear anything unusual, but when I looked around the loft a little I saw the food wrappers were gone (I never found them) and the depression in the loose hay had been kicked around and masked. I don’t know if there was a drifter in the barn. It all might have been that pesky raccoon for all I know, but it was pretty scary. I climbed the ladder every night for a while after that wondering what I would find waiting for me in the hay loft.
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Dr. Emily has a new vlog out talking about some more crazy vet scenarios. If you like the video, let us know and let your friends know about it. Hope you enjoy, and, as always, thanks for watching
Alright, here we go. It’s been a little over a month since I wrote about how Emily, the kids, and I are doing while in the grip of the Corona virus. In general we are doing very well, and for that I am thankful, (perhaps not as thankful as I should be considering all the people that are truly suffering from COVID-19). But, to say that ours lives have not been completely changed in the past two months would be very wrong. I’m not sure if (the proverbial) you would classify this post as complaining or whining, but I’m going to think of it as an update on how we’re feeling and how we’re coping with our new found life.
Luckily Emily and I both still working. The vet clinic where we work is still open and fully functioning, we are not turning any clients away and seeing all kinds of appointments (not just emergencies). I know most people have been quarantined to their house, their place of business has been shuttered, and they are staying home to self isolate and help flatten the curve. Emily and I have “essential” jobs and I am thankful. Our lives have maintained a certain amount of consistency because of this. We get up, we drop off our kids at daycare (still open for essential employees), we go to work, we pick up the kids, and we go home. But there is so much more stress and anxiety with everyday life now. I’m awake and writing this at 3:30 on Sunday morning. Neither of us sleep very well anymore, the corona virus is ever present in our thoughts, and the kids’ lives have been very much changed.
At work: at work COVID-19 is always present, always lurking around the next corner. We clean insistently. Every thirty minutes each phone, computer, calculator, door handle, and any other surface that is generally touched gets wiped down. Clients are no longer permitted in the building and that has been the case for a while now. We’ve tried to pair doctors and assistance to cut down on people’s exposure to one another. Everyone at the clinic wears a face mask to catch any sneeze or cough. But, even with all these precautions, COVID-19 lingers. There have been three coworker leave work due to illness. None of them have been tested, let alone tested positive for corona virus. But still, we have had three different cases of illness at the clinic. As an assistant, it’s my job to go out to the client’s car to get the patient and the patient’s history. Every time I go out to talk to a client, I can’t help but wonder if this client is sick, or have they been exposed before coming here. Is this next client taking social distancing seriously, are they wearing a mask to protect me from their coughs and sneezes? I have personally had clients try to hug me since this began. I’ve had several clients try to shake my hand, I’ve been coughed on, sneezed on, I’ve had a client put a pen in their mouth before attempting to hand it back to me (I politely declined the pen). COVID-19 and the fear lingers everywhere at work. Mostly I fear taking it home. I don’t fear getting sick myself, this is probably overconfidence, but I do fear being the one to get my kids sick.
At home: at home the fear is more distant. When I’m at home the fear feels like it’s “out there.” It isn’t here, it isn’t present, but it is still lurking. Trying to find a way in to our little bubble of safety. Emily goes to the grocery store once a week or every other week to buy food, and that is our extent with contact to the wider world except through work and daycare. When we are not working we are home. In general it’s been nice. We’ve started new quasi education projects. We’ve learned that vinegar will eat the egg shell off an egg, now we have a very squishy egg sitting in a glass jar (we also learned that the egg will absorb some of the vinegar and expand – now the egg can’t fit through the top of the jar.) We have also started a container ecosystem. The kids and I went down to the creek on our property and collected rocks, mud, plants, and creek water in a big container. So far we have seen some worm looking things crawling in the mud, some bug creatures swimming around the surface, and two tadpoles swimming around. We’ve also started a garden, started taking walks around the neighborhood, and many other little projects. Without school, Emily and I are trying to educate the kids at home. This is very tough due to the lack of change in our schedules, we still work five days a week. Instead of reading to the children at night, they now read to us, the school has provided packets of work for them to do, and we’re rehearsing sight words. I hope it’s enough, India is in first grade and Oscar is in kindergarten so school isn’t too challenging. We are, however, getting restless. Understandably, the kids want to go to the park, they want to go to church to see their friends. I find myself staring at the mountains longing to go hiking again, the walks around the neighborhood are nice but they aren’t quite the same. We all long to be out in the world again, to eat dinner at a restaurant or to play at park, but we are making due at the house.
At least the media and social media seems to have more fully understood the dire situation we are in. I no longer hear a lot of people down playing COVID-19, although you still have your outliers like the quarantine protesters in Lansing, MI (even though Michigan has one of the highest disease rates in the nation) and “Dr.” Phil who compared COVID-19 to car accidents. In general we as a society now understand the risk that we are currently living with. Most clients are taking social distancing seriously, most clients are wearing masks when I go out to talk to them, and I’ve even had some clients cancel non emergency appointments because they didn’t want to risk their health for an appointment that could easily be rescheduled. Emily and I are trying to do our part, I think most of the people out there are doing their parts. I can’t imagine that this will go on indefinitely. This is not the new normal, but hopefully just a blip (a very scary and difficult blip) in our lives.
On a lighter note, there have been some good things to come out of being quarantined with the family. Work is more stressful but also more fun without the clients in the building. At work we can talk about things we would never talk about with clients in the building. Conversations tend to be more frank and honest and language is a tad more colorful (helps with stress relief). Patients’ histories are more direct. As a family we’ve learned that McDonald’s is still open even though Emily and I tried our hardest to convince the kids that it was closed. I look weird with a shaved face (I’ve grown back the goatee), and Emily likes to dye her hair pink. Trying to teach a 2 year old anything school wise is almost impossible(we tried to teach Calvin to write his name). We’ve also learned how to better be content with what we have and enjoy those around us. Enjoyment and fun is not found out of ourselves but comes from within.
Tell us what you think, how is COVID-19 effecting you and your lives? And, as always, thanks for reading.